Why are there almost no girls offering ballbusting apart from professional Dominatrixes?

I am not a stalker or anything like that. It was not hard to find out where she works, it is on her facebook account, she is a dance teacher. My point is that maybe she has received messages like these before but would react differently if I met her in person and explained it to her. I am not gonna do this but I often think what would her reaction be. I dont know if it was received well or completely ignored becase she thought that someone was making fun of her by offering money for this. On the other hand what is the purpose of these videos? Who will buy them? People who really likes these kind of things: ballbusting, trampling, mixed wrestling. So to some extent she must be aware of it, people dont buy them because of acting. Let' s say that you recognize a woman that you know in one of these videos, you wouldn't think for a second to ask her about it? ,,Hey I have seen your videos online, I am a big fan of yours, would you mind doing this to me" and that's all. If she said no, then no. I didnt say that I send messages to her every day, week or month, i sent her two in 6 months that's all. I am not following her or anything like that. It might be my poor English in which I cant express myself really well. I didnt want it to sound that creepy. I am really sorry guys.

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