I understand your concern but did the former pastor want to meet you? Talking online is not a crime and perhaps he can offer counseling that might help you. We all have sinned and come short of the glory of God and we need to forgive others and not judge them. Yes, he made a big mistake and he needs to be watched carefully so sexual offenses do not happen again, but he must continue living his life, which means working and living in a house in a community. So many people do not want a registered sex offender living in their community, but people need housing. People make mistakes and need to be given the chance to show remorse.

I agree with you. Keep online chatting casual and not personal. Thanks for the reminder to be cautious. God bless you.