You just repeat that he's a sexist and toxic which no one is even arguing he is not.

You are suddenly able to name drop girls he was mean to, but what about the girls he was friends with despite them rejecting him, living far away, or being in relationships to begin with? You can't just pick the negative, which no one is denying and gets talked about constantly, while ignoring that he did maintain quite a surprising about of female friendships and acquaintances.

Also I really don't know where in Littleton from his male friends and traditional family he was supposed to undo learned sexism which is absolutely inherent to that community. It's not like guys naturally flip a switch to become feminists after a while or MUST be horrible piece of shit sexists (forever). It can be a process and it depends a lot on your environment, I'd much rather meet people at where there understanding is than dismiss them as disgusting and give up.