Not necessarily. These people were like minded individuals who did not believe in the whole “Sue was a bad mother”, “Sue’s a liar, she makes up lies to make her sleep better at night” and other comments along the lines that you mentioned, but rather felt it safer to contact me in private rather than face ridicule. One for example, is a psychology student, who shares the belief that Eric’s Harris’s upbringing or what the parents have to say about it, could help form a better understanding for those who study psychology, not just outright call people liars or say that their testimonies are false. A lot of people, I’ve noticed, are not willing to see things from a different perspective, we agreed.

So my question really was, as a Mod, what advice would you have for those newcomers, like myself, and others, who feel safer to share thoughts through DM’s rather than face ridicule from the whole “Sue hate train” and “anti Randy following”?