Ok...ill take this one head on.....love is never easy as you say...very true and starting over ...so what???? r u kidding me? So you are fine with your significant other making a vow to you and then breaking that vow for selfish reasons destroying years of marriage , family and trust....and leaving you with nothing but ...oh well so what....??????? This has to be a joke or you are just a young person raised in this new world of " so what" my actions dont deserve any reactions and my words are just words....You my dear friend are the cancer that devours marriage, trust and faith in each other. I hope you live a long life full of lessons teaching you just how ill conceived your ideals are.