Haha nope, “the city” is referring to NYC.

Yeah I know it’s tough for dudes. When we flirted with the open relationship thing, I downloaded Tinder and had two girls who were down to hook up. So I think if I tried I wouldn’t have too much trouble getting laid these days. But of course it would be easier for her.

As far as swinging goes, not totally sure on that. I don’t think my girlfriend is too interested in actually seeing another man, but she wanted me to have the opportunity if needed.

Another thing I should add is that she was my first and I was far from her first. So I definitely feel this pull towards having some different experiences where I think she got that out of her system.