You are a solid, above average size. And if you have some fat pad, you're likely bigger than what you see and what women will feel.

Maybe it feels small because of stereotypes around black men and penis sizes, and what you've seen in porn, but you are far from being small. Sure, you're no monster dong, but that's ok, not every woman wants that. In fact, I'm willing to bet that most women would be much happier with your size than someone packing an arizona tea can in their pants.

Plus, satisfying women sexually isn't just about your penis size, penetration, and piv. It's so much more and being good at everything as a whole will be more satisfying for them overall. I'm much smaller than you are and I make sure I'm good at everything, not just my stroke game to make sure they're satisfied in every way. And for full satisfaction, it's not but what you do in the bedroom that matters, it's out of it as that's where most of your time together is spent. How big she smiles when she is with you is much more important than how big your dick is. But if you can make her happy outside of the bedroom and happy in the bedroom, your size matters less even less.

This is coming from a guy with a small penis that has been with multiple women that have expressed being sexually dissatisfied with guys that were much bigger than I am.

As far ass the big but thing, I haven't had a problem with it. You can trust me on that because I, too, like big butts and I cannot lie.