no idea why these dudes are so butthurt

It's not butthurt, it's frustration. Do you know how incredibly hard it is to meet a woman off of reddit. Not even talking about sex, RAOMD, anythign like that. Just MEET, for a DRINK. It's impossible. Every woman says I have a bad attitude because I say stuff like this. I'm just being honest. It's frustrating.

It's frustrating that I craft a thought-out post, listing my interests, what I'm looking for, that I simply want to talk and get drinks, see what happens, and receive zero replies. Again and again and again, zero replies. I don't want to complain, but why do you think it is that men just send messages like "hey want to sit on my face?"? Umm, because we've all sent literally 1000s of well thought out messages and never received a reply back.

I'm not saying anybody has it worse, men or women...but I do agree with what people are saying. Also, come on, if I said something like "lol these women are so butthurt" I'd get fucking CRUCIFIED. You can say it and still get 100 PMs on your next ad.

Maybe I'd be willing to post a M4F SUCCESS post if only anybody ever replied to my ads. All you ever see is F4M ads that are success and bragging about it. Yea, duh. Maybe take some of your own advice and actually reply to a man's ad once in a while so we don't just all get bitter and pessimistic?

The necessity of sifting through a ton of garbage messages is the challenge we have to contend with in dealing with this skewed ratio.

omg boo hoo. I've been posting on RAOMD and other R4Rs for years and still have not had a legit reply.