It actually cant be a consensus on who you like. The show is about family and depending how each one of us are raised we may have something in our past that makes us perhaps compassionate or intolerant of one of the cast. If its personal no one wants to be downvoted and made to feel bad about a history of being abused physically, psychologically, or raised in an unstable home.
I know for myself i find myself irritated when everyone loved Deb, and hated Farrah. I saw my own moms irritating use of religion to manipulate her children and the perpetual pity partys she throws.
I spoke without explaining why i didnt like her and was stung like a bee with bad karma. I am not proud my mom has untreated bpd and that Deb triggers a bit of repulsion in me. Another person may have lost a sister or their dad like Amber and feel compelled to support her.
Sometimes a different opinion is personal and disagreeing is ok, we can all still like and respect each other.
Tolerance of different beliefs would be my one serious rule request. This is not a new england town meeting its a discussion. There doesnt have to be a concensus and it saddens me when i see people preface their comments with "i know i will be downvoted but...."