Yeah, I'll probably post more, when I feel like it, no promises. Feeling kind of lazy. No offense taken. I'm pretty open and this account doesn't really represent me the best. More of a fucked up inner dialogue.
I would say that the most important thing is to put out positive energy. You want people to have fun with you. Attraction comes naturally with that. They're attracted to feeling good and having fun, so if you can offer that. That's a huge plus.
I liked being good at things and showing those things off. Having a passion for something is really really attractive. Whether it was some sort of hobby or skill, that depends on you. But just being a fun, happy, positive and open guy seemed to be what people liked about me. Seems pretty easy, right? You want to be interesting and do things that are exciting.
Having your own place helps. Getting drunk and just being silly helps loosen things up and that's probably where I've had my most success. Invite a girl to a concert, buy drinks, go back to my place after and watch some YouTube videos. Ask her if she wants to make out, ask her if she wants to stay the night. That's a pretty clear sign that she wants to bang. Asking a girl if she wants to make out is my go to move. But everyone is different. Key point, is to have fun.
I've never used dating apps like tinder, but that seems like the way to go now. I just prefer to go through friends, or co-workers, and ask a girl if she wants to hang out that I met at a social gathering or event. Having friends who would vouch for me makes girls more comfortable with hanging out with me and can make plans with those friends as an excuse to hang out. Making friends with guys is a great way to meet girls too.
Ex-girlfriends or fuck buddies can make awesome wingmen. I feel like some girls can be really competitive and want to show that they can fuck the same guy that their hot friend was bragging about for example. If they're all single and sleeping around, there's minimal drama.
Or join a kickball league or something. It's much easier when you're not a junkie though. Otherwise you're kind of limited to other junkie girls unless you lie. I don't lie about my use to people and that has led to a huge decline in the amount of women that are attracted to me. So, yeah. Don't do that.
Having a big dick doesn't really matter, but it may make a girl interested who has a big dick fetish or is purely interested in sex, or perhaps she wants to brag to an ex that had a small dick or brag to friends or something. It's probably rare but it has happened to me a few times.
Most important is that you try. You have to try and fail. You're going to fail, but tell yourself it's a victory because your chance of success would've been zero if you didn't try. If you try enough, you'll eventually have success and it should expand from there.