thanks! i had no idea who she was before any of this but she has apparently known and been watching my social media for over a year. when i threw them away, i didnt know exactly who's they were yet, they were tarnished and old looking so at first i just assumed they were mine from under a couch or something. it took me a few hours for it to click in my head and to finally get suspicious and start asking him questions. im not like too too worried, i just thought it was odd of her to feel comfortable enough to demand money from me after everything, figured she had a few more tricks up her sleeve or something to put the cherry on top lol. thanks for your reply! even if she does try, ill be making sure my ex pays for anything bc i will not.