Well he had a roommate before he moved in with me. They both had their gaming setups in the living room. His exact words when I brought that up is that "he would talk to me al the time and I never responded." I guess I just hoped it'd be better with me since when I'd be over I would see BF ignoring the roommate a decent amount, but he always responded to me pleasantly back then. He just moved in at the end of November.

In your opinion does it seem like with our opposite schedules does it sound like there should be adequate recharge time being alone almost every night from ~10:30pm until 8am? Because I thought we'd be great with him getting all that alone time but these issues persist.