So I'm thinking back on the physical part... I don't know, I've had times when I was an aupair (live-in nanny) when I intimidated the kid I was looking after when I was very irritated someday. I never went physical with her of course, but seeing her face after I acted like that just made me feel horrible. Or when my partner irritates me too much and maybe accidentally hurts me, or won't stop annoying me after I've asked him to stop, I'll be inclined to like... hurt him back. I'll control myself but I guess it's not something I've never done as I previously said. I don't think I force people with it though, I'm only really bossy and use ""intimidation"" when I'm very stressed and irritated.