Why the selfishness in ABDL relationships?

This is kind of a selfish kink that puts a lot of work on the caregiver. We're temporarily dropping all adult responsibilities in little mode while the caregiver still has those responsibilities and now a little to care for.

COMMUNICATION!!!!!! Littles, ask if you can do anything after little space. What caregivers give us is a gift, we should return the favor and then some.

Caregivers, we're not mind readers and without boundaries we will keep pushing the boundary of how little we can get. I don't know about other littles but in my home, what mommy says goes. We give you this trust hoping you will not take advantage of us, but don't let us take advantage of your kindness either.

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