so i haven’t dumped him bc i believe there’s hope and i don’t believe he will do it again. especially since in 4 months from now he moves up to a college for his 3rd year of schooling with three guys and ik he would get his ass beat lmao. I told him i’m giving us 4 months to work our problems and stuff and there a lot of rules now. If by august when he moves and if i dont trust him still then we break up as it’ll be harder to have trust when he’s 90 minutes away. if it’s gained back or worked on then we can stay together

i do have hope it wouldn’t happen again as i know ppl who have done it once and never again. just the relationship is different and lots of ground rules get set.

I was told to try to use sex toys in the bedrooms alone or with him to see if it could help the relationship get stronger since it helped the person who told me this. He got a penis vibrator which i’m cool with and then a pussy/butt thing. and now i kinda have a fear that i’m not good enough and that the toy will make him want the real thing. while the cheating was online and he has never met the person... it still raises fear.