I’ve never seen anyone put this into words this well, but yes I’ve always thought about this.

I always though that sex, in theory, should be this super natural, relatively easy, fun and equally enjoyable thing that every human’s instincts are constantly screaming at them to do.

Meanwhile sex is a fucking ordeal for women. Even for women without vaginismus, their vaginas aren’t MADE for pleasure - that’s what the clit is for. It’s so fucking sad.

I’ve been trying so hard with my partner but we still constantly struggle to penetrate me, we struggle with positioning a lot too, and it often gets frustrating for both of us. I love my partner a lot and I’m so grateful for his patience but there are so many times where I feel so much resentment for being born female. Like why do I have to be the undesirable role in sex