Don’t get triggered lol. Let’s just talk facts. So let’s assume your personal experience is an anomaly to all the research that’s been done. You account your social status as a major factor combined with your physical appearance. Latter is subjective so let’s talk about the former. The social status alone makes you a minority in Pakistan, that makes you from the top 1% I assume. This makes your experience unique and you yourself just said that this is not common and probably not all men would experience this if they made the move. Hence invalidating your initial hypothesis.

P.S. the extensive research is not mine. I just like data and this is something I had read recently. You took a dig at women not being well read, look at how Pakistani men get hurt when they are presented with facts.