I guess you don't know the statistics of raped male victims in Pakistan. The number will shock you because it's twice as high if not more than women. Why? because the truth never gets out. We don't have the privilege to call rape and an army of men come up to save us. If we yell rape... we eventually get raped more by society's bullying, harassment, and abuse.

That's the dirty ugly truth. Plenty of men on this sub are culprits of that crime. And plenty of them here are victims. But you won't know that. Your Lover is not your slave. And he's not buying a concubine. You have some responsibilities as well in a marriage, which to be honest almost half of the modern women fail these days.

Your points about harassment are on point. But please do talk about the hypocritical privileges that you have, and yes they violate equality. Before you go blaming patriarchy, remember the first victims of patriarchy are first and foremost young men(boys).

You live in a plenty delusional privileged environment. Of course, men can go walk out at night. Do you know what happens to most lurkers in the night? The same that would happen to you.

Women who abuse male boys in Pakistan is also high. From female teachers, to Aunties, and female family members who molest boys. I have had hundreds of friends who have been assaulted and blamed for that assault by women at age, they were barely naive.

If an Auntie touches a boy, ladd ker rahein hain. Wohi cheez uncle kerein, tou harami mazay ley raha hai. Usi laad mein aesi ladiyan ho jati hain, jo ham sari zindagi, sochtey rehtey hain, key akhir hoa kiya. Phir ek din jab koi dosra dost bolta hai, then we realize oh shit, that fricking bitch molested me, one that I revered the most.

But then she's living in London with her lawyer husband and 4 kids living the life. While you're popping pills, and barely scraping through life.

So yeah, too much privilege. Only the blind avoids the grey area.

Men get abused, women get abused. Both genders are equally involved in crimes. And let's not talk about the toxic pampering of women on men in their early years. That's another subject.

Honestly, men are pack mules in Pakistan. We live to work, die, in the end, live unsatisfied lives, and then die of a heart attack with all the fucking stress on our backs. And yes there are women but only a quarter who do the same. But don't put yourself in that strong figure, those women have my utmost respect.

Nowadays that number is slowly rising. However there are still plenty(half) who still abuse the privilege they are given. So its not that black or white.

Men are scummy in Pakistan. If you ever wanna talk about the actual reasons, I'm sure there will be a woman involved that had a role to play in there as well. Probably their incessant mothers, and the negligience of male father figure/role model.

It goes both ways.