Yesss I have so many questions took. I get heavily pursued by married all the time...I work with a lot of them. I'm good and being honest about being honest and making it clear I'm not interested but I have kept an inappropriate friendship with one for many years now. Ive grown to really appreciate him and the friendship he has given to me while struggling in my life and he's continued to be supportive even though we don't sleep together. Our conversations are very inappropriate...we speak as if we are in a relationship but he goes home to his wife everyday. My question is why step out..why not leave the marriage. If your grown up enough to sign that marriage license then be grown up enough to sign that divorce papers and go be single?