This is a Northern elephant seal Or rather, this is the beach master. In seal culture, he's known as a Chad because "In this polygynous society, a high-ranking bull can have a harem of 30–100 cows, depending on his size and strength. Most copulations in a breeding colony are done by only a small number of males and the rest may never be able to mate with a female." [Wikipedia](reddit!. This is fairly common reproductive behavior among animals, and even with humans.

For example- did you know that as recently as 8,000 years ago, 1 Male got to pass on his genes for every 17 females that did? "The bottleneck coincides with the Neolithic Revolution, a period of rapid technological innovation that gave rise to agriculture, the domestication of animals, permanent settlements, and a surge in transport technology. The changes in human culture might somehow have created new reproductive pressures that disproportionately impacted on males. Rather than needing pure biological fitness, the data could suggest that cultural fitness was now important, especially for men." [Article],(http://arstechnica.com/science/2015/03/neolithic-culture-may-have-kept-most-men-from-mating/) Actual study

Did you also know that women find 80% of men below average?. Women literally perceive four out of every five of us as below average based on looks alone. Take this into account for online dating.

What does this all mean? It means that sperm, on the whole, is cheap and disposable. However, quality sperm is a prized commodity and then some. The majority of us aren't going to win in the looks department alone, but we can win by making the most of ourselves.

Self realization is perhaps the most important tool in dating, and in life. Look at yourself in the mirror and take a deep breath. Seriously ask yourself - If I was a girl, would I even want to fuck me? The answer should always be some degree of "no", because you should be constantly trying to improve yourself. Make yourself into a desirable commodity.

Good luck friends.