My wife stopped yrs ago after a couple yr stint doing it. I mention it in passing sometimes but she also doesnt seem to into it anymore but life got busy and I think she really loves our family dynamic and might be afraid to lose that. When she was doing it she was obsessed with sex at the detriment of all of us so maybe thats it? I can tell you as kids have gotten older and I mention it she does seem to have moments of pondering about it, she doesnt really say this to me but I have noticed she starts masturbating a lot more after our discussions about her restarting so I dont think she hates the idea she just doesnt want to risk her good life now.