It feels pretty weird that I have to, on a subreddit aimed at women, justify myself for not responding to someone's message. It feels pretty shitty that I have to explain to someone, who should know better, that I do not own anything to anybody on the internet. Especially not a literal stranger. Maybe your message made me uncomfortable. Maybe it felt like we wouldn't get along. Maybe there was inappropriate stuff in your post history. But that doesn't matter to people like you, does it? All that matters to you is trying to passive-aggressively ruin someone's post, you know, like the butthurt manchildren on the regular r4r would. Thanks for coming to my ted talk and thanks for ruining my post.