I don’t want to put too much in as she uses Reddit and I dont know if I’m ready for her to see it. Basically she met her girlfriend in January ‘19 lovely girl, lots of emotional baggage but really lovely. Since they moved in together in 2019 I see her less and less on her own. Her GF comes everywhere. I had a conversation with her about missing seeing her one-to-one and was told to get a babysitter if I wanted to see her one-one, that I can’t expect her not to bring her GF if I have my kids. My husband works nights and therefore a lot of the time I have the kids. COvid makes it impossible to get a babysitter and I don’t have any family nearby. I only see her when she needs space from her GF cause they have argued. I had a really low point in November feeling generally overwhelmed and her response was essentially whenever my husband is off (once a month at the weekend and holidays) I prioritise my family and so she has a right to do the same with her GF who is off every weekend. Really like her but like with any friendship I want to be able to see my friend and just have a gossip/chat. This is why I haven’t spoken to her as I worry I am being petty