OP prefers to shift the blame for her parents, it’s easier than acknowledging that he is using her for love and affection making it even easier to him to do so. While she chooses to deteriorate her relation with her parents this guy is maintaining his family’s relations intact and its good Muslim boy image in certain circles untouched.

Her parents see where this headed and to protect her and open her eyes.

I was in a similar situation with my SO. I respected for as long he feel he needed to have the courage. He told his parents. He was kicked out. First year was hard and horrible for him. We have a house now. We even have a DOG sleeping inside that same house! LOL You know what he never did? Calling out me or anyone close to me that had concerns about our relationship islamophobes or racists. He knew who was at fault: His Family.