I'm intrigued by your message, since I'm also looking for a pen pal, somebody to share my thoughts and emotions. I'm living on the west coast, where I do freelance writing and editing, and trying to find more to enjoy being outdoors. The words sweet, passionate and open-minded are all terms that have been used to describe me. However.... (isn't there always a "but"?) I am quite a bit older than late 30s. As in, just turned 60, and yes, I am married. My wife is a wonderful person, with some long term chronic health issues that make it difficult to have a relationship with much of a physical side. It's a difficult situation, but she doesn't mind if I correspond with women here. I'd love to hear back from you, but I certainly understand if I'm outside the bounds of what you're looking for. Perhaps I'll be lucky enough to get a reply?