I've always considered myself a giver. I love to dote and wait upon the people who matter most to me. Doing everything in my power to make them happy gives me deep satisfaction. In the back of my mind, I've always acknowledged this disposition as submissive in nature (admittedly something I didn't entirely understand). What I never realized is that all it would take was a dominant man to fully comprehend the depth of my propensity for it[submission].

Luckily, I found him.

And even better than the unbridling of my giving nature, that he never seems to shy from or asks me to qualify, is his return of appreciation and praise, and the subsequent challenging of the ever expanding limits of my commitment to his gratification.

Which brings us to my collar.

It is a small sort of gift to him. A thank you for getting us where we are today, where I'm the happiest I've been. But also something I felt proud of, creatively; something I came to on my own that is not only a testament to my submission to him, but something with a unique twist I thought some here might find enjoyable, too.

As you can see, my collar has both a tag and a bell. On the tag you will see my name, Kane's. Below that, my designation, "Good Girl." Having the tag engraved at petsmart was an exercise in submission itself, especially considering the tag's reverse. The backside is engraved with my name as well, along with the far less desirable epithet, "Cum Dump." Kane chooses which side of the tag I deserve, and can flip the collar to reveal the reverse at any time. For instance, if I have been told not to let the bell ring and I fail to accomplish that, he may choose to flip the collar. Sometimes Kane likes to hear it jingling. Sometimes not. The flip of the collar may be the punishment in itself for similarly minor offenses, or it may be a single aspect of a larger punishment, or it may act as a warning -I'd better make quick reparation and have it turned back, or face further abasement such as leashing.

It is a simple game, one of many I'm sure we've yet to discover. And ideas are always welcome. I only ask that -Kane, please choose the gentlest. But I've yet to have my collar turned, and I don't intend to any time soon. So do what you must.

Please, and thank you.