I feel you. I am in a same situation as you. I’m [32F] and don’t like Tinder because i learned that it’s not my thing and I’ve had bad experiences meeting guys through tinder in the past. I tell them I don’t want sex on first meet and they get upset with me, called me a weak person, and all the nasty names. I tell them they got a huge ego size of a planet, insecure, desperate, and have zero respect. They can’t be disrespectful and just have sex with a woman he meets right away. That’s a huge red flag. Then I tell them no wonder why they can’t find a wife because all they want to do is whore around. I completely deleted mine in 2017 and never dated anyone since.