exactly!!! I really really do want to have sympathy in this situation but it's honestly sad seeing her praise her husband for showing her basic decency while calling this girl a "creature" and a whore who somehow possessed her husband into sleeping with her. Like we're discussing a 35 year old man who knew this girl when she was underage and she clearly has a deep insecurity and problems of her own. She's a teenager, hasn't even reached the legal drinking age yet, but she's somehow this demonic controlling creature who has preyed after her husband. He's a grown man with a developed brain who used a teenage girl's body as his personal sex toy while his wife was pregnant with his second child, and she's still praising him for the bare minimum.