I feel you. I literally just commented on the last post "Am I ready to date again?"
They only have to worry if their arse is clean. Their dick functioning... and I am stuck here pre-t and I cannot have top surgery until I have been two years on T.
It's been 6 years since I had any short of casual date or serious relationship... and I stuck here two years more... Before 16 I was getting guys like the beautiful girl i was and now here stuck in this nightmare. None I am atracted to likes me back. Fuck puverty. Fuck being trans. Fuck the cis-tem.
The mainstream cis-gay communities are literally hiper-sexualized... all they talk is sex and love.. I cannot be part of that yet. I miss my past self be able to do it. I lost that priviledge and I have to do it to be at peace with myself in my own skin.