I'm sorry, I really didn't mean to sound hostile or negative, and I genuinely did not mean to start a fight in the comments. I understand that we should encourage women to use positive adjectives when describing their own bodies but this is a little different, it's a white woman with a feature that has changed into something a lot of woc already have and being insecure about it. I understand she means it was a different color than her skin tone but it's not like my labia is the exact same color as my skin tone or completely matches it either, I'm lighter skinned and mine are dark drown, so it kind of makes me feel like if she's self conscious about it than I should be too. Again, I didn't mean to read malice into her statement and think it comes more from ignorance than mean spiritedness, and I know she's worried about the change but if that were the only reason she posted she probably wouldn't have used the wording she did. I don't argue with people in comment sections a lot and don't want to start so I hope this settles any confusion