Excellent article. I'm personally aroused by that fantasy, that I'm actually trying to make reality. The quote "Consider, too, that once a romantic relationship has been domesticated, much of its original luster may have become tarnished. So if, through fantasy, a man succeeds in imagining his wife as a passionate, two-dimensional sex object, such a manner of “un-domesticating” her can restore some of the “shimmering lust” now possibly missing for him." Speaks to me, as it makes lots of sense. Not only because the bedroom is not as filled with lust as it once was, but because by intimately knowing her, I know how wild it can become. What man wouldn't want something wilder?