Lmao i’m this persons carer so of course I should stay with them as much as possible, especially since they received treatment from nurses that would’ve been dangerous had I not been there to correct it. Considering how well i’m doing now with my diet and lifestyle, it’s safe to say i’m using this tool of wls as it was intended and am going to reap the benefits, even though I had a temporary setback. My surgeon has been amazing at guidance.

Point being- i’m not a weight loss/health and fitness robot, i’m a fully multifaceted person and sometimes situations happen that make it hard to fully care for yourself. It’s clear to me this is not a universal mindset in the bariatric community though but thanks for letting me vent :)