If you're referencing my comments that have now been locked, then, respectfully, I don't want to continue the conversation because it was locked by the mods and I want to consider their decision to shut that down.

If you mean this comment you're replying to, I apologize I made you feel that way as that was not my intention - it's a situation I take personally and I get emotional about. I'm not trying to make demands, I said my stance is that I'm on the side of not harassing people no matter the circumstances, not telling people "Don't harass people no matter the circumstances" and I hope I made that clear enough because I've got ADHD and have trouble putting together thoughts into coherent words. I don't know what part you feel is condescending or controlling.