You know it's interesting. They did the exact same thing to my father. They blamed him for alcoholism and drugs and all of the things that someone does when they don't have any other way to cope with the pain of their lives. Having sex with the wrong people too I seem to recall. Isn't funny how you didn't care about any of that when you thought you were getting what you wanted. But how quickly you ostracized him and blamed him when you decided you could get something better, when he wasn't good enough. I see through you, and I see what you are willing to sweep under the rug. What terrible pain you'll allow others to get what you want. Would you like to know what very well might happen to my mom because of your carelessness and her own stupidity. For letting someone cruel into our lives. Taking love away from us. Look at my dad's mother. Alzheimer's. Much like autism or a whole host of other mental health problems, my parents will blame it on the individual suffering these things. Instead of considering the possibility that this was not the way that people were meant to live. That they were never meant to abandon fathers, destroy families, tell people who not to love. They are the problem to use your words. Their ideas are to blame, their way of life. You can see the evidence quite readily comparing the brutality of their ways with more civilized places. My goal is to make sure that people like them are on the way out. So no else suffers.