Sara and other bullies becoming who they are due to having been bullied

The way I see it. Everyone gets bullied. No one has ever not suffered some form of bullying. So why would I ever want to hurt someone in a way that made me cry, made me hate myself, made me contemplate ending it (I also felt that was selfish, because I'd leave a loving family behind and make them cry), made me distrust almost anyone who was nice to me. (I've also had some form of childhood trauma that has made me develop amnesia to it. Dont rememeber almost 90% of my childhood due to being m0l3sted at 5 by a friend of my brother's). I never want any experience in my past rule my life. So I learned to live by the golden rule.

"Do unto others, as you'd have them do unto you."

I don't understand why people would ever want to subject others to the pain. Dara claims it's rough love, but I've seen real tough love from my parents and what Sara and Charlie Gold are is complete bullies. It isn't about using tough love as a last ditch effort to snap someone out of their delusions (speaking about ALR). It's more of. "I was bullied and so now I can bully others. Just to make myself feel better."

Sorry for the rant. But I can not stand bullies. It is why I stopped watching and supporting Lyfeofafreespirit, CG and YDHB. They definitely crossed the line of constructive criticism to outright bullying. I'll never support a bully.

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