So, I am a guy with a ~7.5 inch penis, that is quite "fat". When I am really turned on, I'm probably ~8 inches.

The thing is, my problem is the opposite - there are many women who aren't fans of my size. In fact, all of them have said they would prefer something smaller.

In college, there was one girl who wouldn't even let me try to penetrate her, and broke me with me because she didn't think she could have sex with me. And there was one girl whose cervix I would hit every time we would get rough, and she hated it, and make me stop. Most girls don't ride me, or ride me very carefully. And it is particularly problematic when I get really hard and want to keep pounding.

And I have never been able to do anal, because even girls who enjoy anal basically are terrified to let me penetrate.

I always imagined it was only guys with really huge penises (i.e., 10 inches) who had this problem, but nope. I think women ideally prefer ~5-6 inches, and anything longer isn't a good thing.

The other problem is that I am also "ever hard" in the sense that it is not easy for me to finish. I need at least ~30-45 mins before I can finish. So, while a girl may enjoy riding me for ~10 mins at most, it tends to get a little painful and sore, so 75% of the time I have sex, I don't finish. It is hugely unsatisfying.

Thankfully, it's been less of an issue with my current girlfriend, which I think is because she's a much taller woman (Danish, 5'11), so I think physiologically she can handle the size more than, say, a smaller Asian girl who's 5'2. But even she has commented that sometimes, she'd prefer that I go down on her vs. have sex because she's too sore.

In any event, this is not a humble brag -- it is just something that has been incredibly frustrating. And I wanted to say that there are so many times I have wished my penis were just a little smaller. Would have made my sex life so much better.