I'm so glad you don't have rage problems as they can take over your life, are you perimenopause or menopause and do you take anything like HRT? I take a magnesium tablet just before bed as well as HRT and it does help, I think the majority of people now have debts and are struggling more so now than ever before with this cost of living shit. It's very hard my friend but you seem to be coping well, I mean that in a nice way. Your mum did very well coping without HRT as I wished I didn't have to take it but I definitely need it as my anger just wasn't normal and my brain fog. I just wished women didn't have to go through this as it's cruel and wrong but that's life I suppose.