Hey thanks for your friendly message. havent actually gotten many of those ahaha.

Why did you choose to message me? Can you tell me a little bit about yourself? Like your age, gender, and location? I think there's benefits and disadvantages to talking to a man about relationship issues as a girl. So I would actually like to hear your perspective if you are a guy. Particularly if you're in your late 20s.

I definitely understand the core issues with my relationship and with who I am. I have very low self esteem and I only stayed with him because I truly dont have anybody else. Dating is very hard for me and I've had a pretty...traumatic past. I should have left long ago but he helped me financially and gave me some of the love I never got from my friends or family.

But he never gave two shits about me because all he did was gaslight and blame me for everything. He didnt even say Happy Birthday to me because he said he was "busy." Today is his own birthday and I feel angry and sad. I have more to say but I guess that's all I can muster up right now.

Thanks