22 [F4M] [Advice] on messaging women on here

Good advice. Before I say anything else, I do agree with you that there a lot of guys like this.

But might want to include that women are human beings too and are just as likely to be brick walls who know nothing of good social dynamics. If there’s one thing that annoys me when it comes to this topic, it’s how women expect equality while expecting men to do most of the work in many dynamics, not just social. I thought we were moving away from traditional gender roles? There are just as many women who are terrible in conversation or actually worse than some men probably because they always demand us do this and that without considering the flip side. You’re gonna call me an incel but I don’t give a shit. I’m tired of women this, men that. You’re a human being like us. You’re no god or monarch. Get over yourselves please and stop to think if something you did was wrong or if something is wrong with you.

This doesn’t change the fact that there are a ton of men who need to be told these things. I’m just telling you to include some advice for women for how to talk to or understand guys if you’re going to go on a rant. We are ALL human and we are all susceptible to the same mistakes as well as bad decisions.

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