It's bad enough when I see it on Grindr but here? I choose to believe that reddit users were a little better educated and would research terms before embracing them. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.urbandictionary.com/define.php%3fterm=whitecake&amp=true Urban dictionary defines the term white cake (and cake is just a shortened version) as - A white male who is a racist, sexist, homophobic pig that has no tan and typically is not in good athletic shape. Typically Baptist and from the Southeast or Southwest of the US. Whitecakes believe women should stay at home and cook, clean and have babies. They profess their values but typically make lousy money, have frequent bouts of unemployment and are losers. Don't embrace a hatful term for a dumbass white boy.