Mine isn't fond of me. She won't do anything if it's just us (like, if I ask her to go see a movie, she'll ask who else is coming, and if I say just me she'll go "eugh, no thanks"). She used to be part of the popular crowd in early elementary and I was a nerdy tomboy, she'd make fun of me. She often tried to blackmail me when we were teens. We're in our mid-twenties now.

We're just very different people. We have the same group of friends so that's why we see each other frequently, but I don't think she'd see me otherwise. But she also rubs me the wrong way - I think she's a bit entitled (she got angry when I wouldn't let her use my apartment to bring a date back to since she lives at home...the last time I let her she broke my one rule of not having him sleep in my bed and they didn't leave for an entire 24 hours)...she's lazier (never did chores as a kid, leaving me to do them all, and would take my car which had gas instead of filling up her car), and she's totally rude. (she kept bringing up my exes in front of my boyfriend even though I asked her not to, and she kept defending herself saying it shouldn't bother him because he should know I have a past, and she has a right to say what she wants).

I'm not perfect. I get snippy as hell with her. She's the only person I ever get angry with because I let her push my buttons, and I can act condescending because I get fed up with her so easily. So there's that. I have faults.

But I also won't let any friend talk shit about her and have defended her to my best of friends when I heard them disparaging her. I'm very protective of her and I think we're on better terms than we were when we lived under the same roof. I think it'll get better eventually.