I disagree about the dick pics. Don't assume women don't like them. I've never messaged anyone without a pic, I want to see what I'll be working with. I know what shapes feels good in me personally. If I like what I see I PM. There are many posts with words, and they're nice, but tbh I normally scroll past if there's no photo.

Age, pic, location and some of your interests/kinks/what you enjoy doing helps. I will never message thirsty guys who comment on every thread they can. Be respectful and say exactly what you want out of meeting someone.

In regards to big cocks, not everyone is after a big cock. I was intrigued @ the beginning like everyone else, however just because someone has a big cock, doesn't mean they know how to use it. YMMV

I've had some great experiences so far, there are some great guys here. Have fun everyone.