I like to be challenged, I play destiny for the challenge because it gives a unique set of challenges I can’t find anywhere else right now, so I highly enjoy destiny, I play it quite a bit as a result.
I don’t see why I should purposely do something I find less enjoyable because destiny’s ‘not real life’.
You know what is real life though? A constant mundane, stressful grind, maybe I wanna come home after dealing with bullshit all day and have some fun. I don’t see the problem with you having fun your ‘casual’ way and I won’t try to intrude on it, so why is it acceptable for you to try to take away what lets me drift away from my misery, even just for a couple hours?