Are there any SINGLE bros out there not on any Apps?

Once in a blue moon I'll be on the apps out of curiousity to see what's in my area, other than that I'm never really on them.

It's complicated trying to find guys outside of the apps because in my mind almost every guy I meet has to be straight, that there's NO WAY they could be gay. It's funny though because when I see myself in the mirror it's like "well fuck, I definitely pass as a straight looking dude, but I'm actually gay so I'm sure it's no different with some of the guys I've met!"

Problem is when I go out in public I just can't help but feel so guarded. Maybe some of these other gay guys feel the same way. It's very tricky trying to hit on a guy or ask for his number because it feels like I'm asking for trouble. However I'm sure most of these guys would be flattered to hear it, though probably disappointed it wasn't a chick. If something did come of it I'd be one very happy dude!

Just my experience though. Maybe some of you could relate. I just know that if some guy randomly sparked up a conversation and started hitting on me I'd be curious because no guy has done that yet besides chicks. I guess your best bet of finding a guy outside of apps is to get cocky by being flirtatious and see where it goes!!

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