Thank you very much for your response. I'd never heard smile the day after tomorrow, really enjoyed it.

I think seefu would have been a good choice.

Just getting back from the service, I woke up late and had to rush. Ended up just going with hazy fp. His brother chose sufjan Stevens death with dignity which i thought was an amazing song. His dad went with tears in Heaven.

Was hard being there but was nice. His dad and his brother took a turn shoveling the dirt and then invited me to do so as well. They put me down as his brother in the pamphlet and when i saw that I wept.

I lost my little brother years ago, and now it's like losing another. Life is just so weird.

Any ways really, thank you for your detailed comment. Everyone in this thread was really helpful.