^ This!
People on youtube put the content up willingly, by doing so they expose themselves to public discussion and ridicule. I think some youtubers forget that sometimes. Fame comes at a price.
You know where Tommy stands on everything because he is a stand-up guy and is honest about his life. He has a more mature approach to it all realises there is nothing to gain by being incendiary. The Tommy on youtube is the same as Tommy in real-life, he will openly say he doesn't care about this or that and get on with his car build. The conversation stops there because there is nothing left to speculate over. Other times he will state the facts and move on. It's refreshing.
He can produce daily content and we the viewers can enjoy it. It's pretty simple. Other channels try and be secretive (for whatever reason) or try to mask the truth and it just stirs up the viewer community to guess and speculate about every little detail. That causes the hateful cancer to grow.
Tommy is winning youtube, he's putting out great content at the moment: