Did any of you ever look for older male relationships when you were younger? Not sexually, but just men you could show affection to that weren't related to you?

And we have our first winner and reason why I went with a throwaway. I don't know how this is a fantasy. The kid is always after me, I never search him out. But this post is literally asking "How should I push him away without scarring him or should I just let it phase out?" You've obviously never worked with young kids but they are extremely touchy.

I never initiate hugs but I won't deny him one if he asks for it (unless it's not an appropriate time). And like I said if you finished reading, my bosses have seen me interact with him and I've talked to them about how attached he is to me.

And I never spend "alone time" with him. There are other students around us at ALL times and I'm never in a room alone with him or any other student by that matter in case anyone tries anything.

Don't misconstrue what I say. It doesn't help.

Your reply didn't help at all, just turned in a platonic situation into some perversion that you can't look past. Not everything has to be sexual and when YOU are sexualizing the actions of a CHILD, you are the one that needs to question yourself.

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