Probably because in those scenes, I didn't...
All she did was be an over aggressive asshole, being rude and causing a scene, which is never going to solve or fix anything
And again, maybe everyone needs to chill, and just because you all had shitty relationships, and don't know how to deal with it, that doesn't mean everyone's dad is a monster
Sometimes kids aren't these pure things that need to be protected and guided
Sometimes you're a kid yourself, and don't know how to deal with an aggressive teenager, and you figure it'd be better everyone for the kid to leave than to stay, which is true
I'm not saying this is 100% what happened in this case. I'm just saying that a huge problem nowadays is people just assuming the worst and never looking back
Also where do they say they canonicaly consider him abusive, I don't follow them on twitter or watch much of the talk show, so I probably missed it