This actually makes a lot of sense and resonates a lot with me. To some degree, my ex was projecting this exact analogy on to me. "Do you love me or are you just attached to me?".

I think if love isn't felt through actions (not words) then it's difficult for a relationship to prosper. And that's not necessarily a the fault of either sides, sometimes love languages are just not compatible.

But in my case, I would say they were definitely just emotionally attached and not interested in my perspective, especially since it really didn't take much time until I was replaced with the next source of emotional gratification. It's sad more than anything that that person needs to be attached to someone.