ELI5: What is the mechanism that make men stop immediately being horny after orgsam?

Let me explain it to you simply because I’m going to assume you mean well but just don’t understand. The clitoris is basically a minipenis & a clitoral orgasm will basically exhaust you the same way I imagine a man would. There are really rare circumstances you can have multiple clitoral orgasms - for example I’m bipolar I think during a manic episode I counted to 30 in one session once by myself. But that’s pretty rare lol, usually I just stop after I’m once because quite frankly like a man I usually I get tired and it hurts if I keep going. As for vaginal orgasms, it’s kind of debatable if those exist. Most women I have talked to mainly do clit stimulation when they’re alone. I would say I have had what most women call a vaginal orgasm with a partner but they are different and not as satisfying and honestly probably more mental than anything. I can make myself cum without touching myself, but like I said it’s not nearly as satisfying. So that is why we are all making fun of you - the reason we want multiple rounds and have “multiple orgasms” is it’s not as satisfying. & honestly it is kind of sad women are misled about their own biology so much that they have been convinced by men they don’t need any external stimulation, that they can have satisfying sex solely by letting men do what mostly just pleasures them. That is what I feel like people are confused by but things would be so much better if we were just honest with ourselves & our partners

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